A major change was putting someone else's needs first at every turn while discovering a love akin to spirituality. Something bigger than oneself.

Someone told me a Mother is only as happy as her unhappiest child. Well, that gets complicated but there is a lot of truth in it. When I became a parent the happiness and well being of my children became so high on my needs list that I had to grow just to create balance in my life. And in continued attempts to connect with my children I must continue to

grow even with adult children.

Here we are back in 1991.