When life gets busy and I am at the end of my parenting rope. Sometimes I get a little dramatic. I mean I really like it when things go my way and on the days when I have less than zero control? Let's just say tantrums aren't just for kids.
Summer just started and I'm already hearing my frustrated, barky voice echo in my head as I tell my boys all the things they could be doing instead of complaining. I realized that I give pretty good advice. And then I realized that maybe I should take it once in a while.
Listen, parenting is hard. Parenting when you don't even feel like adulting is even harder. So when the message gets complicated, it might be time to think like a child.
Advice I give to my kids that also applies to me (an incomplete list)
- I know you don’t want to wear pants, but you have to.
- One piece of Halloween candy is enough. Too much of a good thing is real.
- Not every day has to be special.
- It’s ok to feel sad sometimes. It will pass.
- No, you can’t just go from one screen to another screen. Take a break. Read a book.
- Not everything is about what you want.
- Respect your family.
- I think you can come up with a nicer way to say that.
- Say you’re sorry.
- Say, “I forgive you.”
Parenting is hard and it often feels like I am talking to myself. Maybe if I started listening I would learn to relax, forgive, live and enjoy this time and these people who I love so much. It’s time to step away from the candy. It’s not too late.
Or so I hear.
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