The problem of children's addiction is now very serious. It is aggravated also by the fact that many parents simply do not understand that this is not a hobby or a passion. Unfortunately, adults start realizing that there is the problem only when their children really have a psychological dependence. Many parents consider, for example, that spending time searching the Internet is much safer than being on the street. They do not worry about where they are, because the child is sitting quietly in his and does not bother anyone. Moreover, recently, new serious dependencies have emerged, with which not only parents but also experts do not know how to fight.
Why are children addicted and how to treat it.
Addiction is a biopsychosocial disorder. This means that it is a combination of neurobiology and how it interacts with social and psychological factors and your genetics. It is closely associated with chronic diseases like diabetes. However, it is treatable and preventable. The best way to treat addiction is by going to a therapist.
Computer addictions
Is it possible that children are too plugged in? Computer or gadget addictions describe the obsessive use of computers which interferes with their daily functions. Computer addicts often disregard time and all physical elements of life. They do not form meaningful personal relationships and it may cause miscommunication among their peers. Introverts are the most likely to be computer addicts. They love imagination are more likely to invest all their time and efforts in one topic. Spend more time with children, find some pastime that is interesting for you both.
Shopping addiction
If your daughter's shopping is spinning out of control, she ends up spending more than she has to. It is considered an impulsive disorder more than addiction. Teenagers have got role models, an idol from the TV, from the world of music and urge to look like them. The clothes of classmates evoke a feeling of envy and desire to have the same or similar. This leads to numerous problems both personally and financially. Therefore kids with shopping addictions tend to have anxiety, depression and are self-conscious. Try to speak to your children more often and do not ignore their needs.
Diet addictions
Appearance for the child is often the object of his increased attention. That's why extra kilos can become a real fix, especially for girls. Young ladies become vegans, eat nothing or got harmful diets. Sometimes they get more depressed by the behaviour and may make themselves vomit to keep away any weight gain. Therefore, they end up with anorexia . Offer your daughter to visit nutritionist, who will help to choose a right diet, suitable for the age and health condition.
Risky behaviour addiction
Often you will see teenagers engaging in habits that could easily cause their death. It often makes them wonder what they are thinking when they are doing such things. Researchers have found that these thrill seekers share many symptoms as drug addicts because they get the same adrenaline rush and after a while, they end up looking for such activities so they can get the same level of excitement. Like gamblers, thrill seekers tend to be extroverted and are looking for areas where they can experience a new rush of excitement and involve other people as well. When they do not get these activities, they tend to be moody and depressed. Try to consult psychologists to cope with such an addiction if you notice a child's suspicious behavior.
Conclusion
So, as you see, addictions are not just due to physical problems . That is the way our children show themselves trying to become a part of the socium. And the best way to cope with them is making children your friends and talking to them whenever they need.
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