I am 𝙨𝙤 tired… People say “these 2020 babies are 𝘣𝘶𝘪𝘭𝘵 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵” but what they’re not talking about is the exhaustion that comes it.
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I am so touched out. Every waking moment Juju is tugging at my clothes, screaming and crying for attention. We co-sleep, nurse all night, and the only thing that seems to make him stop screaming is nursing on demand.
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This adorable baby is so reliant on me. It’s all he knows.
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This coupled with parenting a toddler on the spectrum…each day my “breaking point” is challenged and I’m pushed further and further beyond it. I have to adapt. I can’t stop. I can’t wake up one day and say, “I think today I’ll take it easy.” It never stops.
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If you feel like life is drowning you, like these other “hot mess moms” seem as if they still manage to get it all done, I can confidently say they’re most likely struggling the same as you. They’re just not talking about it.
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It’s hard to talk about it. You feel like a failure. Generally people aren’t supportive, and you’re met with comments like “When I was a SAHM, I did all these things. It’s not that hard.” Or “It could be worse, stop complaining.” and so much more.
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I will never stop talking about it. This is freaking hard. No one should ever make you feel like your struggle isn’t valid.
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You’re doing a good job, mama.
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