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Challenge: Pandemic Parenting

Do You Ever Feel Like You're Drowning?

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I am š™Øš™¤ tiredā€¦ People say ā€œthese 2020 babies are š˜£š˜¶š˜Ŗš˜­š˜µ š˜„š˜Ŗš˜§š˜§š˜¦š˜³š˜¦š˜Æš˜µā€ but what theyā€™re not talking about is the exhaustion that comes it.
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I am so touched out. Every waking moment Juju is tugging at my clothes, screaming and crying for attention. We co-sleep, nurse all night, and the only thing that seems to make him stop screaming is nursing on demand.
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This adorable baby is so reliant on me. Itā€™s all he knows.
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This coupled with parenting a toddler on the spectrumā€¦each day my ā€œbreaking pointā€ is challenged and Iā€™m pushed further and further beyond it. I have to adapt. I canā€™t stop. I canā€™t wake up one day and say, ā€œI think today Iā€™ll take it easy.ā€ It never stops.
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If you feel like life is drowning you, like these other ā€œhot mess momsā€ seem as if they still manage to get it all done, I can confidently say theyā€™re most likely struggling the same as you. Theyā€™re just not talking about it.
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Itā€™s hard to talk about it. You feel like a failure. Generally people arenā€™t supportive, and youā€™re met with comments like ā€œWhen I was a SAHM, I did all these things. Itā€™s not that hard.ā€ Or ā€œIt could be worse, stop complaining.ā€ and so much more.
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I will never stop talking about it. This is freaking hard. No one should ever make you feel like your struggle isnā€™t valid.
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Youā€™re doing a good job, mama.

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