
I am đ¨đ¤ tired⌠People say âthese 2020 babies are đŁđśđŞđđľ đĽđŞđ§đ§đŚđłđŚđŻđľâ but what theyâre not talking about is the exhaustion that comes it.
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I am so touched out. Every waking moment Juju is tugging at my clothes, screaming and crying for attention. We co-sleep, nurse all night, and the only thing that seems to make him stop screaming is nursing on demand.
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This adorable baby is so reliant on me. Itâs all he knows.
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This coupled with parenting a toddler on the spectrumâŚeach day my âbreaking pointâ is challenged and Iâm pushed further and further beyond it. I have to adapt. I canât stop. I canât wake up one day and say, âI think today Iâll take it easy.â It never stops.
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If you feel like life is drowning you, like these other âhot mess momsâ seem as if they still manage to get it all done, I can confidently say theyâre most likely struggling the same as you. Theyâre just not talking about it.
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Itâs hard to talk about it. You feel like a failure. Generally people arenât supportive, and youâre met with comments like âWhen I was a SAHM, I did all these things. Itâs not that hard.â Or âIt could be worse, stop complaining.â and so much more.
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I will never stop talking about it. This is freaking hard. No one should ever make you feel like your struggle isnât valid.
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Youâre doing a good job, mama.
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