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Football Matches - Family days out with the kids

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A very popular day out is a classic trip to the football with the kids where they get to bond more with the parents and enjoy all the thrills of the match to boot! Professional football matches are played all over the UK and Scotland so there are always many matches to choose from. Of course, non-league teams also have plenty of action to keep the little (or not so little) ones enthralled. Parents finding better ways to bond with their children can do a lot worse than a good match.

The timing of matches suits the bill, as well as the usual times, are kicking off at 3 PM and Premiership matches are mainly played on Saturdays Sunday whereas midweek activities can often affect schooling and other weekday appointments.

What age is best for taking your child to the match?

There is no "right age" but if you take your child when they are very young they be frightened or bored and you may put them off for the future. I believe 7 or 8 years of age is a good time to start attending matches. Anyone is welcome at a football match so there is no "right age" so you can be admitted no matter what age, but you might want to wait until they are a little older say 8 or 9 years old so that they can deal with the large, loud and of course boisterous crowds without being scared and have a great time and experience at the match!

If children are timid the experiences will help confidence. It is prudent for the parent to choose matches that will not be too loud and bolshie for their child and stick very close to them at all times to provide them with confidence and protection. This is always appropriate for children where crowds of people are assembled regardless of the circumstances. For the match, it is always prudent to arrive nice and early before the big rush for kick off.

Are you prepared for your children to hear some bad language?

While clubs are trying to reduce bad language from players and spectators alike, the truth is there will always be people shouting out swear words at events like this when tensions are high, For the most part, the crowd will be shouting to the pitch where the game is being played. Some matches it might be best not to take your child the local derby for instance can be very intimidating, but as there are so many matches (38 Games for each team in fact in the EPL) it will be up to you to choose the best ones to attend at the end of the day,

Spending a gloriously sunny Saturday afternoon with dad at the match is a way of really bonding with your lad or lady and having fun in the process for both of you, together. You can also have a small wager to make it interesting but remember that they will have to wait till 18 till he can join you for that,… and the pre match Pint!” Bonus Code.

What will you pay?

If you more on the "well-healed side of the financial purchasing side of things you may opt for hiring a private box so your child feels protected from the "masses" the first few times but as they attend more they will gain confidence as their experiences grow, Have fun and enjoy your happy parenting.

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