My kids are spoiled but not rotten.
I am the mother that doesn’t let them cry.
I am the mother that runs to them right when they fall, lending a helping hand with a hug and kiss if they need.
I am the mother that lets them eat junk food once a day, sometimes more.
I am the mother that often gives in.
I am the mother that buys them new toys and sometimes “just because.”
I am the mother that gives them iPads to play with probably too often.
I am the mother that has redefined “too much” to suit our family.
My kids are spoiled but not rotten.
I am the mother that won’t accept anything but kindness.
I am the mother that makes sure manners are used.
I am the mother that makes sure they share.
I am the mother that won’t accept bad behavior.
I am the mother that has firm limits.
I am the mother that will make sure my kids appreciate what they have.
My kids are spoiled but not rotten.
Because I spoil them with love, and the love I have to give isn’t textbook—
but I won’t let my kids be brats.
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